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Trauma Dumping vs. Healthy Sharing

Trauma dumping is when someone shares intense or distressing personal experiences with another person in a way that feels overwhelming, unfiltered, or unsolicited. Unlike healthy emotional sharing, trauma dumping often occurs without considering the listener’s emotional capacity or consent. Key Characteristics of Trauma Dumping: Unfiltered & Excessive: Sharing distressing details all at once, often in a way that feels overwhelming. Lack of Boundaries: Talking about traumatic events in inappropriate settings or with people who may not be prepared to support the conversation. Seeking Instant Relief: Using others as an emotional outlet without considering whether they’re in a place to help. One-Sided Conversations: The focus is primarily on the person sharing, with little regard for the listener's emotional state. Trauma Dumping vs. Healthy Sharing: Healthy Sharing: Happens in a mutual, supportive environment where both people feel safe and respected. Trauma Dumping  ...
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I am so overwhelmed with joy as I hit the "publish my book" button on my computer. It is amazing to see how a little faith and a whole lot of trust in God can make ALL of your dreams come true. We spend a lifetime working hard to make others dreams come true and very little living the life we dreamed. When I discovered that my happiness was tied into my making my life better and not focusing on others to do the job, I started living life for the first time and  I started living my dreamed life. You will never be able to follow the crowd and be truly happy. You will be required to leave the safe and jump into the deep trusting that ALL will be OK. Take the time to enjoy your life today, you desire it. My new book now on Amazon.